It is important for us to learn to hear Holy Spirit and what He has to say to us, and what He thinks about us.
The result of healing people just because our Heavenly Father loves them, no strings attached, is to show just that: that our Heavenly Father is NOT mad at them, but absolutely LOVES them.
I recommend learning them, and then learning and understanding your love language and that of your spouse and each member of your family. They are also good for improving any relationship.
Or do people want to follow those who believe the joy of the LORD is their strength and are walking around full of the joy of the LORD?
I don't believe there is any perfect congregation, but we do serve a perfect LORD and GOD Who knows how to fit us together as family and draw us closer to Himself.